
Stay Anchored, Achieve More
Ever felt excited about your next season, only to find yourself wondering, “Wait, can I actually do this?”
That’s exactly where I was when I said yes to co-hosting my largest live event to date. It was a huge opportunity—one I couldn’t say no to. But as the excitement settled, the doubts crept in.
“What if no one shows up?”
“What if my co-host thinks I didn’t do enough?”
“Who do I think I am to pull off something this big?”
The voice of self-doubt was LOUD. And when I finally sent the invite out and got… zero sign-ups? Let’s just say it felt like confirmation that maybe I wasn’t cut out for this.
But here’s the thing: I couldn’t let those doubts decide for me. This event was my next level—one step closer to living out my dream—and I had to meet it. So, I leaned into the tools I had and reached out for support. What helped the most was reconnecting with why I was doing this, quieting the noise in my head, and rebuilding my confidence in everything I was doing—even though part of me wanted to quit.
Fast forward to the big day: 120 women in the room. 5 sponsors. Tears, laughter, and connections I’ll never forget.
Here’s what I learned: stepping into your next level isn’t about never doubting yourself. It’s about learning how to move through that doubt so it doesn’t hold you back.
And if you’re standing on the edge of your next big move, wondering if you’re cut out for it, let me tell you—yes, you are. And there’s a way to navigate it with confidence, clarity, and momentum.
You rip up the package, too eager to look for a pair of scissors, and there it is: your own book. You can’t believe you just received the first few copies of your masterpiece. People had always told you, “You should write a book!,” and you can barely believe that after months of edits and hard work, it's here– and a self-published masterpiece! But as the excitement begins to settle, your mind starts spinning: “What if no one buys? What if the box of copies you just received will be collecting dust in your office a few months from now? What if it gets negative reviews? What if I'm too small to make a difference? What if it was all for nothing?” Your first book signing is next month and you want to make sure you shake these doubts before then.
4 sessions. No, 8 sessions. No… You hit 'delete'... again. You have spent the whole afternoon staring at a blank page, writing a few sentences, then starting all over. You’re about to launch the sales page for your new group fitness coaching program. It felt like such a great idea when you went for a run—but now, you're not so sure. "Will anyone sign up? Or worse—just one person?" You scroll through the many testimonials saved on your laptop—the one you bought from all the success you've created in your business. Those testimonials should be proof of what you’re capable of, but for some reason, they don’t feel like enough. And with the launch just a week away, you know you can’t move forward feeling this way.

“You always push yourself so hard. Why don’t you take a break?” your friend says as you walk together. You force a smile, but inside, her words hit a nerve. “I’m fine,” you reply, brushing it off. But later, as her comment lingers, you start to wonder: is she right? Did you take on too much this time? You're already thriving in Real Estate, with a great income and a strong reputation. You don't have to launch the online church experience, but it's meaningful and deeply aligned with your calling. It’s a vision you’ve carried for years, and it finally felt like the right time to bring it to life. But now that it’s in motion, the weight of it all is starting to sink in. Family responsibilities are piling up, the emails and tech challenges are relentless, and you can’t help but wonder: “Am I even qualified to do this? Should I have waited? What if this flops and I let everyone down?” The certainty you once felt about this calling has been replaced by late-night second-guessing. You lie in bed staring at the ceiling, second-guessing every decision. The vision you once felt so certain about now feels daunting, and you’re torn between the drive to create something impactful and the fear that you’ve taken on more than you can handle.
You put away your phone, tempted to delete Instagram. You spotted yet another win from a Fashion Designer. While you’re happy for him, you’re slightly embarrassed to admit you feel like a failure in comparison. The gratitude for your clients and all the shows you’ve had suddenly fades. “I should be farther ahead by now,” you think. And didn’t that designer start after you did? Instead of feeling excited about your new line, you feel bitter that you aren’t showcasing your designs on more prestigious platforms. The pressure to make NYFW, your biggest show yet, a success is building. “If only I could be a little more confident/extroverted/organized, I would finally make it,” you think as the doubts creep in. With NYFW just weeks away, you know you need to get back to feeling like the creative visionary you are—focused, confident, and ready to bring your best to the runway.
You’re a tax advisor for high-income entrepreneurs, and deep down, you know your approach is different. You’re not here to recycle the same tired strategies or follow the traditional playbook—you’re here to create real change for your clients. But lately, it’s been hard to quiet the noise. Everywhere you look, there’s another tax advisor promising “the best” solutions, using flashy marketing and cookie-cutter approaches. It feels like you’re just another small fish in a massive ocean, no matter how much experience or expertise you bring to the table. You find yourself second-guessing: “Am I doing enough? Will anyone actually see the value in what I’m offering? Do I even stand out?” You know in your heart that your vision is worth pursuing—your clients have told you how much they appreciate the way you think outside the box. But with so many others out there, it’s hard not to feel lost in the crowd. How do you stay anchored in your conviction? How do you keep trusting your approach, even when it feels like no one else notices the difference? How do you prove—not just to them, but to yourself—that what you’re building matters?
When Big Dreams are Met with Big Doubts
Imagine with me for a moment…
What if your next level felt like this?
You rip up the package, too eager to look for a pair of scissors, and there it is: your own book. You hold it in your hands, running your fingers over the cover—your dream in physical form. For a moment, you pause, letting the weight of this accomplishment sink in. You feel proud, not just of the book itself, but of who you’ve become in the process. The doubts try to sneak in, but they don’t hold the same power they used to. Above all, you feel clear, grounded, and certain. You know the power of this book, even before selling your first copy. You trust that those who need your message will find it. Your first book signing is next month, and instead of nerves, you feel excitement bubbling inside. You can’t wait to connect with readers, to hear their stories, and to see how your words resonate with them. Even if it never hits every bestseller list, you already feel like you’ve made it.
You sit down to finalize your sales page, a warm cup of coffee by your side. As you write, the words flow effortlessly because you’re not focused on perfection; you’re focused on the impact this program will have on the people who join. You’ve confidently settled on eight sessions—exactly what feels right for your clients. You glance at the testimonials saved on your laptop. They hit differently now. You feel a deep sense of assurance, knowing that your work has changed lives and will continue to do so. With the launch just a week away, you feel confident and prepared. Sure, a little nervous energy lingers, but you’re excited to share your offer, not worrying about how many sign-ups you’ll get, but trusting that the right ones will come. When you hit publish on the sales page, it’s with a calm certainty: you’ve done your part, and that’s enough.
“You always push yourself so hard. Why don’t you take a break?” your friend says as you walk together. You smile, grateful for her care—it feels like she’s always looked out for you like a big sister. It’s not the first time someone’s wondered how you manage to “do it all.” The funny thing is, it doesn’t feel like you’re doing it all—at least, not in the way they mean. None of it feels heavy or like you’re being pulled in a hundred directions. Everything flows: family responsibilities, real estate, and, now, The Spirit-Led Experience. It all fits together in a way that feels cohesive, intentional, and aligned. And if something does feel off? You trust yourself to notice and know exactly how to bring it back into alignment. Your vision to provide for your family, create impact, and honor your calling continues to evolve in ways you never could’ve imagined. You’ve built a sustainable way of leading, growing, and living that honors both your vision and yourself. And it feels so, so good.
You put away your phone, smiling as you scrolled through Instagram, seeing the latest wins from other designers. They inspire you so much! Instead of feeling discouraged, you feel motivated. The designing, the late nights, finding models, getting ready for shows—it’s all so addicting, and you truly appreciate the journey. NYFW is just weeks away, and picturing your dresses walking down the runway fills you with a rush you haven’t felt before. You feel so confident about what you bring to the table, and it’s that confidence that keeps you focused and committed. The doubts that used to creep in are no match for the confidence you’ve built. As you sketch out the final details for your collection, you feel excited—not just about the show, but about everything it represents: your growth, your impact, and the legacy you’re building, one design at a time.
You sit at your desk, wrapping up a personalized tax strategy for a new client. You lean back and smile, grateful for the variety and creativity in what you do. Each day feels like an opportunity to bring something fresh and meaningful to the table. The noise of traditional advice and cookie-cutter strategies doesn’t faze you anymore. What others are doing feels irrelevant—comparison isn’t even on your radar. You’re fully immersed in the value of your work and the unique approach you bring to the industry. Your clients come to you because you think outside the box, and you’ve learned to trust that the right people will always see that. It’s not about doing what everyone else is doing; it’s about staying true to the way you’re called to make an impact. As you map out next quarter’s goals, you feel a sense of ease and focus, knowing exactly where you’re headed and appreciating how far you’ve already come.

The lessons that changed everything
High on the success of The Confidence and Comedy Bash, I sat down and poured my thoughts onto paper, capturing all the insights and epiphanies. I couldn’t stop thinking about how utterly satisfying it felt to follow my heart—even when it seemed so spontaneous, random, and like it didn't make sense— fully committing to my leap, and fully seeing it through without letting doubts, fears, or internal obstacles stop me or derail my dreams...
I reflected on what could have eased that knot in the stomach—the kind that keeps you up at night— and what ultimately tipped the scales, helping me move through the valleys of fear where so many give up.
I combined the knowledge and wisdom from my studies in psychology…
…with the invaluable lessons from working with incredible coaches over the years…
…and the powerful insights I've gained from guiding my own clients through their biggest leaps…
…to create a framework for seamlessly guiding people like us through the leap to their next level with clarity and confidence.
That framework is the foundation of Anchored.

Anchored is for you if you:
Have a bold vision you’re pursuing and want someone in your corner to cheer you on when you hit a bump in the road or temporarily lose sight of your magic. With the right support, you can move through the doubts and challenges that come up, staying aligned and grounded as you pursue your next level.
Because here’s the truth: having someone who sees your vision as clearly as you do and reminds you of your brilliance can make all the difference as you bring your dreams to life—creating the income, influence, and impact your heart desires.
The Journey to Your Next Level, Simplified
What do I mean by 'next level?' You’re at a stage of your journey where you feel the pull to expand, to do something you’ve never done before: maybe launch a new program, host your first live event, or lead a mastermind… or perhaps start a subscription box, open a brick-and-mortar store, or build a podcast or YouTube channel.
You can already hear the audience applauding at your children’s book launch, see yourself sharing the story behind your latest film on your favorite podcast, picture kids shooting hoops and laughing at the self-directed learning school you brought to life, or breathe in the aroma of freshly baked pastries from your mobile bakery…
You know you’ve got what it takes, but with someone by your side to keep you steady through the uncertainty, refocus your energy when it feels scattered, and remind you of your worth when the pressure hits an all time high...
…the journey will be straighter, smoother, and most importantly—more FUN!
What will you remember about this season?
Here's the deal, fellow high-achiever:
You’ll make it. We both know that.
But joining Anchored isn’t just about making it—it’s about how you’ll feel when you look back on this pivotal season in your life. Will you remember the moments you almost broke into tears from the stress, staring at the computer screen for hours, not knowing what to write, and questioning if you’d ever figure it out? Or how deeply aligned, empowered, confident, and excited you felt about the steps you were taking toward your goals?
This isn’t about needing help—it’s about allowing yourself the kind of support that makes the journey not just successful, but fulfilling.
You deserve to feel this way.
And the shifts you make won’t just carry you through this season—they’ll stick with you, long after our time together.
Where Confidence Meets Momentum
After Anchored, you can expect a whole new perspective on yourself and your capabilities, leading to bigger and bolder decisions and the unapologetic pursuit of the highest version of yourself.
Here are just some of the things that can become possible– and that previous clients have experienced:
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Saying yes to opportunities— like speaking gigs, exciting collaborations, podcast interviews—that you used to put off with a ‘maybe later’. Because in Anchored, you’ll EMBODY the mindset that ready is not a feeling, it’s a decision!
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Talking about your work with so much confidence and excitement that your dream clients respond, “Take my money!”
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Upgrading your inner wiring to deal with fear and doubt instantly, so you can keep growing and serving the world at the pace YOU choose, not at the pace fear dictates.
Anchored helps you move through this season with focus, conviction, and purpose, so you can leave this experience ANCHORED at the next level of YOU. From there, reaching your next level in your journey will become not only feel possible, but inevitable!
So how do we achieve this?
The Blueprint for Anchored Success
We’ll use a unique blend of:
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Cognitive Psychology
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Emotional Psychology
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Energetics
To guide you from anxious to Anchored. Together, these three ingredients become a super-fuel for turning your next challenge into the most fun, successful, and fulfilling one ever!
I combine these ingredients in my framework, Anchor and Elevate.
This framework is about moving from a lower state of energy, thoughts, or beliefs to a higher, more empowering one. Over time, these shifts compound, creating a rock-solid sense of confidence and clarity that becomes second nature.
Here are the steps we’ll go through:
1. Identify your Current State: We start by getting clear on where you are right now—what thoughts, beliefs, or energy levels are holding you back. Since 95% of our thoughts are subconscious, you might be surprised by what we find out!
2. Make the Shift: Use the tailored tools and strategies you’ll get in Anchored to shift to a more empowered state of confidence, clarity, and purpose.
3. Reinforce Your Anchor: Each successful shift strengthens your foundation, making it easier to stay grounded and move forward.
4. Celebrate Your Progress: As you continue to shift, we’ll install the habit of celebrating your progress and acknowledging how much more anchored and resilient you’ve become!
5. Embody the Anchored State: This new level of confidence and clarity becomes your norm, allowing you to navigate life’s challenges with ease and unwavering conviction.
Anchor and Elevate is my method to ensure that with every small shift, you’re not just growing—you’re deeply anchoring your confidence, making it a lasting, unshakeable part of who you are. This approach allows you to move forward with momentum and flow while feeling grounded and certain in every step you take.
The shift you've been waiting for
Go from:
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Feeling overwhelmed by all the doubts and uncertainties.
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Wondering if your unique approach or vision will resonate with others.
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Comparing yourself and questioning if you’re far enough along in your journey.
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Getting stuck in analysis paralysis, unsure of what to prioritize or how to move forward.
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Holding back and hesitating to show up because you’re afraid of getting it wrong or being judged.
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Feeling like you’re in this alone, with no one who truly gets the depth of your vision or the weight of your calling.
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Feeling like you’re moving through thick, heavy mud.
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Trusting yourself and believing you have what it takes.
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Knowing and own what you have to offer.
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Celebrating your progress and genuinely loving each step of the journey.
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Taking aligned, intentional action that feels both purposeful and exciting.
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Showing up consistently and authentically, deeply convicted in your calling and immune to outside noise.
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Feeling seen, heard, and supported for who you are.
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Moving with ease and momentum, knowing that nothing and no one can stop you from doing what you're called to do.



Onnie Caldwell
“Charlsey has really helped her through my thoughts and in knowing how I want to feel going forward. She has really helped me to think those things through. I’ve been thinking about these things but just needed that extra clarity. Charlsey has been such a blessing! I feel confident in being able to step into how I want to run my business"

Dr. Brittny Howell
"Charlsey has helped me discover some origin stories for some of my fundamental beliefs. These newfound beliefs I've cultivated have allowed me to live my truth as I work to become my best self."

Chantelle Lamour
"The internal talk is changing. There is actual dialogue. I never thought I’d have two voices in my head. I am having a conversation I couldn’t have before. The positive is combating the negative. You have helped me separate myself from it."
The Right Support for Your Next Step
I get that every goal and next step is unique, so choose the option that best fits where you are right now and what you're working toward—because having support tailored to your journey means you’ll get exactly what you need to move forward with clarity and confidence, no matter what’s next for you.
Here's how each option could work for you:
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One week: Perfect for tackling immediate challenges such as conquering last-minute doubts before a speaking engagement, gaining extra clarity in a network marketing business, or confidently navigating a sudden transition in your fitness community.
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1 month: Perfect for the short-term goals on your horizon, helping you feel confident and prepared as you work toward things like hosting a live event, an upcoming appearance in NYFW, or launching a podcast.
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3 months: Perfect for major milestones, like launching a book or opening your floral shop, giving you steady support and confidence to navigate every step and make it a success.
These are just a few examples—I work with visionaries from all different industries who share one thing in common: a big vision for their life and a desire to take their mission to the next level.
What's included:
Unlimited access to me via Voxer, Monday through Friday, 10 am to 5 pm (I guarantee to respond within 2 hours). This is your space to ask questions, share updates, and receive tailored, one-on-one support as you navigate this pivotal season in your life. Whether you need advice, a confidence boost, or a sounding board, I’m here to help you step into your next level with clarity, alignment, and momentum.
Your next season deserves your best energy. Let’s get you there.
Select the option that's right for you:
One week
$300
1 month
$997
3 months
$2497
Not sure which option is right for you? No biggie! We can always start where it feels most aligned and evaluate as we go. Anchored is designed to meet you where you are and adapt to what you need, so there’s no pressure to get it "perfect" from the start. Let’s focus on what feels like the best next step for you right now!
Who Anchored is Perfect For
(and Who It’s Not)
You’ve accomplished some amazing things already, but now you’re eyeing your next level. Maybe it’s becoming a realtor, starting a YouTube channel, or starting something totally new.
You’re just starting to feel called to more in this life and haven’t taken any steps forward yet toward that “more.” (If this is you, my program Made for More would be a better fit for you!)
You’re no stranger to taking action, but lately, doubts, resistance, or overwhelm have made things feel heavier than they need to.
You’re the person people look up to—known for being driven, reliable, and strong—but deep down, you’d love a space where you can be supported, encouraged, and understood.
You’re looking for a plug-and-play solution or a rigid checklist to follow, rather than embracing a process that’s tailored to you and your unique goals.
You feel the doubts creeping in, but you’re not ready to open up about them yet—or maybe you feel like you have to keep pretending they’re not there.
You want to keep moving forward, but you’re craving clarity, alignment, and confidence to ensure you’re making the right moves.
Quick wins and short-cuts are more your thing. You’re not interested in the deeper work that true confidence and alignment usually entails.
You’re ready to grow, but not by faking it or burning yourself out—you want to move forward in a way that feels authentic and aligned with who you are.
You’re not driven by a bigger vision for your life and aren’t interested in creating a meaningful, lasting impact.

Ready to Anchor Your Confidence?
Secure Your Spot!
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WHAT IS THE FORMAT OF THIS PROGRAM?Unstoppable consists of 12 self-driven, very intentional, and specifically curated lessons with psychologically-backed exercises. You also have a support community with group coaching and inspired audio riffs available to you to help you apply and deepen into the material. Once you join, the lessons and exercises are delivered to you once a week via email. You also have them conveniently available to you all the time in the Dashboard. You are truly in control here, so you get to set your own pace!
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AM I READY TO BECOME UNSTOPPABLE?Whether you are new to personal development or have been committed to becoming the best you can be, this program contains the blueprint for becoming the person you want to be. The tools and knowledge in this program are not just for "beginners." These are tools you can use for yourself, your family, and for years to come. If you resonate with all that you've read so far, you are ready to become unstoppable! Don't take my word for it though; listen to what your intuition is saying. If you feel a stirring inside or an excitement to pursue your dream feeling more confident, worthy, and secure, that is likely you're sign! You're smart; you intuitively know if this the next move you're called to make for yourself and for your dreams.
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HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE TO COMPLETE THE PROGRAM?Great question! And it's one of the things that makes Unstoppable is so special. The length of the program is up to YOU! You can choose your flow that best works with your schedule and your areas of focus. I recommend spending at least 10 minutes a day reading and digesting the content in the lesson you're currently on. Then intentionally practice the material throughout your day. Becoming unstoppable is a lifestyle; it isn't a goal you check off and move on from. Think of this program like your "Confidence Bible." Just like reading the Bible, the more you are "in" it, the more you get out of it. There are so many ways you can go about digesting, integrating, and embodying the material! It is up to you. You can go through each lesson one at a time and then repeat the lessons that stuck out to you the most or all of them; you can stay on one lesson until you feel like you have really absorbed the principles of that lesson; you can break down each lesson into even smaller lessons. The possibilities are up to you! I know you, you desire to be the best and have a drive for 100% success with everything you do! Success, in this program, is determined by how much you integrate and embody the material! That is how you will become internally unstoppable!
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HOW MUCH TIME DOES THIS REQUIRE?I know you are super busy and achieve more in a day than most people do in a week. Your time is valuable! YOU are valuable! I also know that mastery is your middle name. :) You love to put your best energy in everything you do, which is an amazing quality. With that said, you are, ultimately, free to focus on this program as much as you feel called to. To get the most out of this program, I recommend spending 10-15 minutes each day reading the lessons, absorbing the concepts, implementing the exercises, and engaging in the community. Then, be intentional practicing the exercises and making the lessons come alive in your own life throughout the day. You will feel a difference with this type of intention and consistency!
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I SIGNED UP! NOW WHAT?Congratulations on taking this courageous step and investing in your self! Your dreams will thank you! And I look forward to being your guide on your journey to achieving the vision you have for yourself! Now that you are officially part of the [Becoming Unstoppable] community (yay!), you will receive an email from me with your next steps (as long as technology does what I want. ha!). If you do not receive an email from me within the next 15 minutes, please email me at support@charlseychilders.com or DM me on Instagram (www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers). You can also reach out to me at any point if you encounter technical difficulties. I am here for you every step of the way and my purpose is to ensure you have the best experience possible! That is my #1 priority.
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WHAT IF I HAVE ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS?That's great! I do not want you to invest in something if you do not feel totally confident in your decision. Please email me at support@charlseychilders.com with any questions you have, and I'm happy to help you discover if this program is a good fit for you or not.